Monday, May 9, 2011

Mother's Day

Mother's Day is always a bitter sweet day for me. I am so thankful for the fourty years that I got to spend on earth with my mom. Let me tell you a little about her. She was a very unassuming lady. She was a self-made woman. She worked from the time she was 13 years old, put herself through college. Many people comment about the lack of money they had growing up, but she truely had nothing, thus the reason she begain working a job at 13 years old. She almost graduated from college, but I was the reason she never finished. (She was only one class away from graduating, as I understand) She never wore make-up. She was not concerned about her outward appearance. She taught me the importance of being beautiful on the inside. She worked tirelessly, when we were growing up to make ends meet. She had the capability to make a penny seem like two. She rebated and couponed like no other. She could have wrote the book on living frugally. She was the youngest of 8 children. (one sibling died at a young age) She lost both her mom and dad when she was in her late twenties. She went to work full-time outside the home when it wasn't popular to do so. She loved Christmas and listened to Christmas music year round. She was truely tone deaf, unfortunaely she loved to sing. She loved to hear me sing "special music" when I was visiting. (Something I should have done more of) She was a pack rat. I get it honestly. She was a terrible cook when my parents married. She learned to cook, but more importantly, she learned to bake. She passed on her cookie baking abilities to me, which many people are thankful for, including my family and friends. She loved her grandchildren. Mine are the only grandchildren she had. She was not outgoing, but cared for the people that God brought into her life. She taught Sunday School.She taught VBS and did the crafts for VBS for many years. We make some really cool homemade crafts for VBS. Mostly, she loved her God and her family. Those are just a few things about my mom. I miss her. I am so thankful I will see her again in heaven. Love you Mom!

4 comments:

Kelly said...

thanks for sharing about your mom, denise. I am sure she was a very special woman, especially because she raised a very special daughter.

Unknown said...

I thought of you this Mother's Day, knowing it must be a bittersweet time. I agree with everything Kelly said and appreciate all you shared about her. It was like getting a tiny glimpse into her life. Sounds like she was a great example for you and even now to all of us....that life can bring hardship, but you need to find joy and contentment and focus on the things that truly matter. And oh, bless your mom for passing on the cookie baking gene! :) And now it all makes sense why you are the garage-sale Queen and manage to find the sweetest sales! Lovely.

Kelli said...

Your Mom was a wonderful lady, and you are very much like her.

beckyjomama said...

She sounds like an amazing woman ... which makes sense, seeing that she raised an amazing daughter. I cannot imagine how you miss her.